The Obamas do present a polished exterior, this book shows their human side. The story is fascinating look at a relationship and how politics shaped it. We get to know Barack Obama, a man full of idealism and ambition, who felt that running for the president would enable him to make the changes he wants to see in the country. We see Michelle Obama, skeptical of the power of politics to effect change, and concerned about how the Presidency would effect their relationship and their children's lives. By winning the presidency Barack won a bet with Michelle, and she put her whole mind and heart to his success. It was interesting to learn about their adjustment to their life in the White House. They were no longer private citizens and every move they made had political implications, from how they wanted to redecorate the white house to Michelle's clothing and their vacations. Despite all of their presidential privileges, the first family is not able to come and go as they please, even in their own house. Public tours of the white house prevents them from roaming freely in the mansion or on the grounds. They could not take strolls in their own neighborhood. Visits to their home in Chicago became impossible, and vacations were scrutinized. We see Barack Obama learning to define the Presidency in his own terms. Despite being president, he despises politics and really just want to help people. Even as he values getting advice from all sides, he doesnt like people to question his judgement, and is usually convinced that he knows better. He pursued policies that were the most important to him even if he knew they were politically unpopular. The author spends a great deal of time illuminating Michelle Obama's struggles. She reveals how Michelle wants to be a role model, her gift at connecting with children, especially disadvantaged ones, her protectiveness of her husband, and her desire to play an instrumental role in the White House. She worked as Barack's most influential advisor, reminding him to think about the common American in his work. She forced his advisors to become more organized. While Barack was loyal and forgiving, Michelle was demanding and took everybody to task. She wasn't content to play a passive role, she chose initiatives that complemented his and used her popularity to gain public goodwill for the Presidency.The Obama's story is inspiring. Barack's devotion to his family is touching. Despite the demands of his career, he made sure to have dinner with his family every night. He coached his children's basketball games and got involved in their school. He took his wife on date nights. He tried hard to protect her from politics and be considerate of her needs. Michelle is incredible in the way she gave him unconditional support, believed in him when nobody else did, and looked after his emotional health and his political standing. Every couple can learn from their love and selflessness and learn how much spousal support contributes to success. They are truly a team and Barack Obama would be half of who he is without his wife. Their commitment to the American people and to helping those most in need is passionate and genuine. They deserve to be in the White House and celebrated for their accomplishments.
